[EDIT: This post refers to the Official Discord Community where you can actually speak to all the staff members and owners of HH rather than the comment section of the website. I am not talking about the Website’s Community, because that’s not managed by too many people, definitely not the co-owner of the website]
Hello! My name is Weeablue, I started this blog today because I’ve been informed about the news of the Hentai Streaming website Hentai Haven being taken down. I’m sure all the readers of this blog know this has happened and a lot of you might think this is a really big deal. But I’m here to assure everyone that Hentai Haven was a toxic place with terrible moderators and filled with people constantly spewing hate-speech.
Now, that’s a large topic isn’t it, first off. Who are you in the first place and why should I trust you? Secondly, how does the inner community actually affect my enjoyment of watching hentai? Lastly, why should I even care? I’m going to answer these questions before I even start this post.
My name is Weeablue, I am someone who was part of the Hentai Haven Community for years, I know all of the people affiliated with the website (excluding G) and I have had quite a few experiences with them all. Least to say there’s very few good ones and a lot of bad ones, bad being toxic in the sense that others were harassed and bullied. It isn’t fun to experience these types of situations, I’m sure all my readers know.
To the second question you might be asking, I’m going to tell you that it really doesn’t affect your enjoyment of porn too much, but I want everyone to actually know about half of the shit going on there.
Lastly, why should you care? Well, like the second question, you really shouldn’t. This post is mostly to inform about the shit that’s been going down in the server, it’s not too bad but it’s not good either.
Let me start from the beginning, I joined the HH community around one and a half years ago, because I was invited to this server. Originally I thought it was a meme and I joined it just because I wanted to have fun and talk to new people, the reasons most people join servers. Now, when I initially joined there was not really a problem, they disliked newbies like most discord servers and had the mindset of “White Have No Rights” which is fairly common, but that’s an entirely different problem altogether that I might talk about in some other post. Anyways I was accepted because I was self deprecating and was kind of a shitposter at the time, the type of person that was extremely toxic to everyone and told lots of people to kill themselves on the spot just because I didn’t like them, it was pretty bad. So yeah, I was accepted into the community fairly well, the mods liked me, the active members liked me, and the co-owner liked me, going as far as to add me as his friend and make sure I didn’t get banned ever. Great start right? But if you look at it closely you’ll see that this is no way to manage a server and you might already know of problems that might come up in the future, problems that I was not aware of, problems that I didn’t have the foresight to see.
Even with this type of tight knit start there are lots of things that were bad about the server, I was one of the exceptions of whites that were alright. Everyone else was treated disdainfully and there were barely any new active people on the server, which is what you get when you treat your newbies like trash but I digress. This was a seemingly large problem in the community, it’s unlike other toxic communities that are just like “You’re mom gay” to new people it was like a full on war against these “snakes in the making” (Snake is a term I’ll say explain later into the post for people who don’t know about it). This problem is just rampant in the community and it really saddens me to think about it.
Another thing that was terrible was the treatment of women in the community by the moderation staff. Now, this would normally be a problem in a community about porn in general, some people say things like porn demoralizes women and shit like that but I don’t want to delve into those semantics whatsoever. How were these women treated you might ask? Well, in normal communities women are called thots, this is kind of fine and is usually a joke, but in the community it’s blown way out of proportion. Women are practically bullied into sending nudes of themselves even when underage or banned. There were occasions of straight up just bullying these poor people. I’ve seen times where women were forced to send nudes and then when they somehow got these photos were banned immediately after just because of how they are. This was how women were treated when they were new, but lets say a person you didn’t know was a girl turned out to be a girl. Well, it’d be a case of the community liking the female, being absolutely fine with them, but upon realization that a thot had entered the fray the mods/co-owner (Hentai Senpai) would go into what I’d call anti thot mode. This is when he instantly just changes his opinion of the woman into utter disgust, it’s a marvel how he does it so quickly, like, I am mystified and I’ve seen it for almost a year. It’s almost poetic actually, but I again, digress. We’ll move onto the next point.
I’ve covered these large problems, I think we should take a little break and get back on track of my experiences in the community. Before I started talking about some (just some) of the very big problems in the community I was talking about how I was treated by the server. Well, at first I was treated really well, HS liked me to the point of unbanning me even if I did things warranting a ban, so least to say I was treated unfairly to a degree compared to others. Now, this doesn’t really seem like a bad thing right? Maybe he’s just compassionate about new people, clearly not, it’s evident because of his treatment of others. The reason why I was constantly unbanned for doing stupid shit was because I was in his posse of friends. Of course this would be a problem, giving your friends absolute diplomatic immunity of being banned on a server that isn’t even yours (another large problem was the owner of the server actually never talked, as in, never, not one message in the history of the server but that won’t be mentioned here. This is just a reason as to why all this bullshit happened). Now, this immunity wouldn’t last forever though, I soon lost it because I started growing as a person, and making other friends with friendlier people who didn’t call me a waste of space for no reason. His opinion changed of me as soon as I made friends with other people that weren’t specifically in his posse, I was immediately deemed a snake and treated with the same disdain he treats everyone in the server. This time was when I started to realize how bad HS truly was, this was the time everything started going immediately to shit.
I’ve spoken about when I realized everything was going to shit but I haven’t pulled out too many examples to be honest. So I’m going to go a bit off topic and show an example of the tyranny of Co-Owner HS. Now, there was a girl on the server named Angela. Angela was a lovely girl that everyone on the server liked, she never broke any rules whatsoever and was just an all around good person. Now, she was hated by HS and there was a lot of tension between the two of them. Basically, HS sent her some dick pics that she didn’t like. Why did he send these dick pics? I can’t answer why, probably because he harasses nearly every woman on the server. Anyways lets continue, so she didn’t like his dick pics because apparently not every girl was the thot that HS thought they were. Yeah, big surprise, no one likes dick pics right? So this damaged his relation cause his pride was taken down and he couldn’t handle that damage to his manhood, he then proceeded to punish Angela for no reason, keeping her on mute for weeks on end, banning her multiple times. These actions of him reflected how much of a tyrant he was basically, he always pardoned his friends but always punished people who weren’t toxic, people who were good. These actions strained his relationships with the entire server to the point that one of his friends just left him because he didn’t like how much of a cunt HS was.
Here’s a term that I’ve been throwing around this entire post, snaking. What exactly is snaking, well. Snaking, in HH is when a friend betrays you or acts like the biblical snake in the bible, the snake in genesis. It is also when you leak dms for the sake of starting or backing up drama. Now, that’s what snaking is. Snaking was this term that was used as the end all be all argument against a person’s personality, it was often used by HS’ posse to describe someone who isn’t their friend, and is a large reason a majority of the active users of HH were killed off by being banned repeatedly. The typical thing that happened on the server was, HS would ban someone, call them a snake for absolutely no reason to make them seem like a terrible person, then the rest of his dick sucking posse would follow him and say that they are a snake. I’ve never seen friendships this fake tbh, or just people this shallow. This term was fucking terrible.
Holy shit, my blood boils remembering this community nowadays, I do not want to continue writing this. I haven’t painted the server like I wanted to, and I haven’t really explained even a quarter of the shit that went down yet. But, I just wanted to write down a few of my experiences in this place, I’m glad I was actually able to write this. Anyways, yeah. If anyone wants to find out more or anything, feel free to DM me on discord, my user is Weeablue#3060. Feel free to comment here and that other stuff yada yada yada. I hope you’ll stick around to read some more, I’ll definitely start posting a lot soon. Thank you for sticking through my writing till the end.